The older I get the harder it is for me to meet someone (girlfriend) to hang out with. I met a gal last Friday and after that we talked on the phone and decided to go out last night. Well I met up with her and she hardly talked to me 😦 It wasn’t to much fun to say the least. I ending up leaving early and heading home but it has me thinking; what is my problem.
I think I am half way interesting and fun to be around but that doesnt seem to help. Girls have asked for my number or they want me to have theirs and it rarely goes much further that. It really has my moral down in the dating department and sometimes I just feel like saying F$#@ it.
Am I destined to a bachelor all my life?
I sure hope not because that would a lonely life. Do I keep trying and hope for the best? or Give it a rest for a bit? Hell, I have no clue. There has to be someone out there that would like to get to know me but where she is, is lost to me.
Needless to say I am not into to high of spirits but maybe sharing this will help my delema…
Goingbigger 
Hey, thanks for stopping by my blog. I know what you mean about that dating thing. There was a time that I felt I would be the "Old Maid" of the year. I didn\’t like dating so I found it more interesting to try to talk to someone online just to find a friend first. Well needless to say that is where I met my husband. We talked endlessly online, then on the phone, then finally in person. I think it was a good way to start, you really get to know someone on an emotional level rather than physical which for me was the way to go since I am so shy to meet new people in person anyway. Keep your chin up, there\’s someone out there for you and you\’ll find them when the time is right.
Hang in there bud. Don\’t let it pressure you or get you down. Sometimes things just happen if you don\’t force them. Keep the spirits up and something will happen.
I think there is always someone out there for everyone. The only way you dont find that person is if you dont look or make an effort. You may have something to where you will find someone when you are a little older and I know it is harder when you are older (so i am told) but there is someone for you and everyone. It is just a matter of being patient. Have fun while you can and they will just come along when you are least expecting it and you are not looking.
You know what, I know exactly what you mean. I couldn\’t have put it better myself. Dating around in itself is so hard. It\’s tough to keep putting yourself out there over and over again and letting someone in, and not to be negative but, usually getting disapointed and hurt in the process. Where are all the normal, fun, family oriented, smart people out there? You don\’t meet them in bar\’s that\’s for sure. If you find out the secret will you let me in on it because I\’m in the same boat.Amy